When you try to live a simple life

When do you say 'enough!' when it comes to keeping up with the Jones'? When is the line drawn in the sand? Something is always pulling us toward advancement in some fashion, so how do you determine when to say 'STOP' so you can preserve family values and not encourage unwanted aires?

I've had a curiosity for the Amish way of life and their determination to preserve simplicity, wondering what lessons could be learnt and applied to our family life. The other night, my husband and I watched a documentary called The AMISH - A People of Preservation. It was most interesting and we really want to share it with friends to further discussion on certain values and ideas.

The Amish customs revolve around a rural lifestyle, without electricity and as little machinery as possible. Children work very closely with their parents; there is a special bonding in sharing all chores and a respect for work. They are also very aware of pride and look to teach and live with humility. If there was one thing which stood out above anything else, in respect to values we wish to encourage in our family, it's the relationship between children and parents. It, of course, is the result of the many working factors of the Amish culture.

So many things to question! Do we have too many distractions in our own home, pulling us apart?

I think there are times when we must simplify in order to come back together and share the time which binds us closely. So, less television and computer time. More time in the garden, reading, walking, and working together. Don't be afraid to give responsibilities and expect them to be done correctly. The days go by quickly enough, so childhood will soon be gone and whatever is planted now as our family foundations has certainly been magnified in importance yet again.